21 Ways To Make A Man Fall In Love With You

How To Make A Man Fall In Love With You

You’ve met this perfect dream guy – and you’re crushing hard!

Things seem to be going pretty well but you aren’t sure if he’s head over heels for you as you are for him.

We all know how frustrating it gets trying to get a guy to fall in love with you.

The entire process of trying to impress him.

Relationships are hard work, to make a man fall in love with you, you want to make sure to prove yourself as someone of value to him, worthy of his time and attention.

And this isn’t a simple magic trick. After all, you’re trying to build your life with someone else, – and it’s no easy task.

In this article, we covered some of the best tips on how to make a man fall in love with you.

How to Make a Man Fall in Love With You

1. Always show gratitude

Men like women who can show their appreciation for the little sacrifices they make to keep you happy and comfortable.

  Even if he can’t give you everything he’d like to give, you know he works hard to take care of you.

He wants to feel that the risk he takes investing, protecting and providing for you as his ‘treasure’ is appreciated, – all he needs in return, is that you take care not to disregard or disrespect his efforts.

2. Show him you respect and admire him

All a man needs is a little respect and admiration.

He wants a woman who gets him. Someone who appreciates his efforts to provide, protect and solve her problems.

In essence, he wants a woman who sees him as her ‘hero’, someone dependable – one she can trust and rely on.

3. Show him love, allow yourself to be loved in return

Men are pretty simple creatures, they demonstrate their value by their ability to fix things and solve your problems.

He wants to know he pleases you, the truth is, problems arise when he feels he can no longer please you – despite what you think.

If he finds that you’re unhappy too often, at some level, he’ll feel he’s failed, to avoid that he will try to put some distance between you both, to escape feeling like a failure.

4. Care for him

What does a guy want and need from his girlfriend and family if it is up to him to protect and provide for them? Simply defined, a woman’s beauty and grace attract a guy, as evidenced by her natural capacity to nurture or care for others.

Now, before you dismiss that thought as sexist, keep in mind that we’re talking about two individuals who create a cooperative partnership to love, care for, and improve each other’s lives. When two individuals join together with the desire to give rather than take, the true beauty of a relationship emerges. That’s when the magic starts to happen.

5. Don’t suffocate him.

If there’s one area where women make mistakes, it’s in attempting to define a relationship or tying a man down too early.

 That’s because her desire to feel “secure” contrasts sharply with his intrinsic longing for freedom and independence.

If you think about it, every soldier who has ever died in combat has done so in the name of defending their concept of liberty. So learn to give him space, subtly pushing him into tying you down so he doesn’t lose you.

6. Always be on his side.

The concept of honor is essentially inseparable from the ideal when it comes to authentic expressions of male energy and the code it lives by.

Having your partner’s back, whether it’s on the battlefield or on the playing field, can mean the difference between winning and losing.

A man must believe that you are on his side and that you have his back, or he will never commit.

7. Allow yourself to be vulnerable when you’re around him.

He will be less inclined to reciprocate your feelings if he is unaware that you are interested in him. Vulnerability is essential for a good relationship and true love, as it brings you closer emotionally.

When you truly understand what I’ve just said and exhibit these characteristics, you’ll be in your man’s thoughts — and heart. That’s because he’ll discover all the “logical” advantages of your outstanding qualities around the same time his heart opens and “emotion” begins to play a role.

Oh, and there’s another factor that causes a man to appear captivated: his competitive drive will not allow him to lose the most beautiful woman he’s ever met.

8. When you’re around him, use open body language.

According to studies, having an open body language makes you more appealing and desired to others. This implies you should lean in close to him, avoid crossing your arms or blocking your body off in any way, and make sure your chest is facing him. These nonverbal clues have been scientifically proved to boost his attraction to you!

9. Use psychology to entice him to pay attention to you (and keep it).

According to a well-known study, maintaining eye contact improves the likelihood of two people falling in love, so make sure to show him that you’re utterly enthralled by and truly interested in him by maintaining eye contact, and watch him fall in love right before your eyes.

10. First and foremost, go on as many adventures as possible.

Go on as many excursions as you can as a group.

This is what I mean:

Try as many different activities as you can with him in as many different places as you can.

This gives the impression that you’ve known one other for quite some time.

You can choose to;

Work out with your friends.

Go out for a drink in a different city.

Take a date to a new venue, such as the zoo.

Make sure you have as many varied experiences as possible while you’re together. He’ll not only receive the impression that you’ve known each other for longer, but he’ll also like you more.

After all, you’re the one who’s been on all of these incredible adventures with him.

11. Make him believe that he initiated the relationship.

So you’ve been dating for a while and believe it’s time to take things to the next level? Although it would be tempting to tell him right away…

It’s not a good idea.

You can drop a few hints, but most importantly, give him time.

A classic (dumb) male tendency that you can’t blame him for is wanting to believe that a relationship was his idea.

Don’t put any sort of pressure on him.

Even if you’ve picked up on a few

 indicators that he’s madly in love with you.

He’ll believe you’re desperate if he thinks you’re attempting to force a relationship, and that’s bad.

So, especially in the beginning, give him space and time.

12. Let him know what you think.

In order to get him to fall for you, you should ask him for advise.

However, this does not imply that you must seek assistance for everything.

That’s a waste of time.

Men admire women who dare to express their opinions on occasion. A woman without an opinion is one of the biggest turnoffs for men for a reason.

So, if he asks, tell him:

“Would you like something to eat?”

Then don’t mention anything like:

“I’m not sure…”

Instead, speak what you’re thinking right now, even if it sounds ridiculous and you believe he won’t like it.

To summarize, don’t forget to voice your opinion every now and then.

13. Take care of your appearance.

The male brain reacts to visual stimuli differently from the female brain. It turns out that a man’s brain is more sensitive to a woman’s physical characteristics.

For the umpteenth time, the shallowness of men is confirmed.

You can now perform one of two things with this information:

Complain about men’s shallowness.

Accepting it and putting it to good use.

I don’t mean you should starve yourself and go on a shopping spree with your credit card.

That is to say:

Put on some lovely attire.

Make an effort to improve your appearance.

Make sure you take your time with your make-up.

Every week, go to the gym.

It doesn’t have to be as difficult as you might think.

14. Laugh at his jokes (even if you don’t think he’s funny)

Women want a guy with a sense of humor, according to studies and polls.

That’s ironic, because guys are looking for women who can make them laugh. It’s the way it’s supposed to be.

If you laugh at his jokes and he tells you something humorous, you’ve given him the affirmation that practically every male seeks.

That’s how you feed his ego, and he’ll feel better about himself as a result of an impulse.

Meanwhile, he believes you’re the one who makes him feel this way.

15. Replicate his movements

This trick may be found all over the place. It is used by even the most astute businessmen. Of course, there is a reasonable explanation for this:

Because it is effective.

We, as humans, are drawn to others who are similar to us and ‘the same.’

He’ll be more drawn to you if you imitate anything as simple as his movements. According to a study, it’s not just about the motions themselves, but also about the time.

What it means to mirror him and some examples:

When he laughs, you laugh as well.

If he sits with his legs crossed over, you should also cross your legs.

This unconsciously attracts a lot of people. Just make sure you don’t try to emulate his manly gestures and instead leave them to him.

16. Engage in in-depth debates

Have in-depth conversations.

There’s nothing wrong with first dates being a little shallow and uncomplicated. It’s all brand new and exciting at first.

But you’ve already gone on a few dates…

If you truly want to win him over, you need to have more in-depth chats with him. These topics will help you and your partner develop a stronger bond.

One experiment, for example, demonstrates that:

In-depth conversations boost trust and the readiness to begin a relationship.

The consequence of keeping information hidden from one another is the polar opposite.

In other words, you establish a genuine connection with him through in-depth chats. Because of this connection, he’ll think of you as’relationship material.’

17. Show genuine concern for him.

Only a few individuals nowadays truly listen to others.

Everyone appears to have a desire to prove themselves to others.

As a result, we have:

Men who constantly brag.

Women who are just interested in themselves.

By genuinely caring about him, he will naturally grow more interested in you. This is a common characteristic that everyone possesses.

As a result, when you meet up with him, make sure you pay attention and ask questions. This will make him like you a lot more than if you try to persuade him that you’re a lot of fun.

18. Get along well with his family

We’re not just talking about his mother when we say “family.” But, If you get along with a man’s mother, as well as his closest family members, you’ve just added to the list of reasons he’ll fall in love with you.

19. Be kind to his friends.

True, you should treat your man’s buddies the same way you treat him—minus the intimacy of course. If you treat his friends as if they are important to you, he will fall even deeper in love with you.

20. Ask how he spent his day.

He may roll his eyes and act annoyed when you constantly inquire about his day, but the truth is that he enjoys it and it will cause him to fall in love with you – because you care enough to ask.

21.  “Understand” him.

It will help him fall in love with you if he is having a horrible day and doesn’t even have to tell you that he is awful or sad.

But you understand anyhow and give him his space.

He’ll fall a little more in love every day if you just accept him for who he is and don’t force him to talk about it.


To successfully make a man fall in love with you, it will take some effort on your part but generally be kind, attentive, show him you’re a person worth keeping, and he will faster than you can imagine.


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